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Psimer A641.9.3.RB - Becoming a Resonant Leader

  A641.9.3.RB - Becoming a Resonant Leader Dear Self, I am 10 hours from earning my Master’s degree, an accomplishment I had written off many years ago.   While the catalyst for the accelerated graduation stemmed from the Coast Guard requiring advanced education, I quickly figured out my pursuit of the degree was one hundred percent for me, and not the Coast Guard at all; probably explains why I could keep the pace.   And the drive came from a passion to learn, vice a “check in the box.”   I held fast when people questioned why on earth I would choose a degree in something like leadership – ironically most of them don’t know a thing about leading. These past 10 months have undoubtedly been the most difficult of my life.   Not just because of the sheer volume of school work, work-work, but managing all of that while being a single parent and being committed to fostering animals.   I hit many low points when I was tired, stressed and pulled in too many di...

Psimer_A641.8.3.RB - Personal Balance Sheet

 Psimer_A641.8.3.RB - Personal Balance Sheet My distinctive strengths (things I know I do well and strengths that others see in me). My kindness is a distinctive strength, because I try to extend kindness to everyone I meet.   Others not only see kindness in me, they adopt my behavior and remark about how I always make a connection with people.               My potential strengths (things I could do better or more often if I focused or things I do well in some situations and could begin to apply more broadly). My potential strength is continuing my education.   A few months ago, my dream was to apply for law school.   However, having spent the last few months in school full-time, I do not think law school is in the near future.   Applying is not out of the question, but I am thinking more realistically about how I would attend a demanding three-year program while working full-time, ...

Psimer_A641 7 3 RB Appreciating Your Real Self

A641.7.3.RB - Appreciating Your "Real Self" It’s Worth It! The greatest worth in my life is spending quality time with my son Everett.   Everett is my companion in life.   I dedicate most of my time and energy to caring for him and giving him a fulfilled and happy life. Being a mom is the most difficult challenge, as every minute is a learning moment for us both.   Full Potential – Self and Leader Shared Responsibility My worth in the Coast Guard is taking care of people.   I am a unique leader who actually helps people be at their best and reach their full potential.   I accomplish this through honest, open communication.   Recently, I onboarded two new members at my unit.   During our conversation I explained my role as taking care of them and their families.   Particularly supporting their dreams – even if that is dream is not being in the Coast Guard.   By explaining my leadership philosophy, they both immediately told me very p...